Love, Lies, and Deceit.

What is love exactly? Is it just those butterflies you get in your stomach when this guy talks to you for the first time after you have been crushing on him for the longest time? Is it caring for a person more than yourself? Is it taking care of that person when they are sick? Or is it dealing with getting hurt by them over and over again just so you can be with them? Love. Love leads to lies. Lies. Lies lead to deceit. Deceit. Deceit is what hurts the most, but it also makes that love stronger by working through it together. All of these are tied together like knots in a string. With one comes another no matter what. Love will always contain lies because without those lies there would be nothing to work on in the relationship. There would be no deceit. There would be no fights that would end with making up by showing that person just how much you love them and you would feel those butterflies deep down in your stomach again just like the first time. You would feel that tremendous love again just like when you first met your lover. This love grows and grows with each and every lie that is stitched into this web of love and life. All love has issues, this we cannot run away from. It follows us everywhere. With each failed relationship we learn something about ourselves and about love. We may get hurt, but that just makes us stronger so we will ultimately be able to be with your true love forever even through numerous fights and misunderstandings. We build ourselves up and create a strong foundation for a future marriage. So remember… when those relationships that you thought was the one failed, it is not the end of the world… it is the start of something new. It is the start of a new love to come. This is when you begin to love yourself.